Why do people hesitate?
According to psychology people always move in directions that helps them satisfy important unmet needs but if that's the case then how come some people keep hesitating in such a way that prevents them from reaching their goals?
Why would someone who always wanted to have a good career change his job each few month?
The answer to this question is simple, that person's psychological goal is to never take any step and he perfectly achieves this goal by hesitating!!
If you want to understand more why people hesitate then read this article.
During childhood each person comes up with certain psychological goals that he sticks to for the rest of his life.
If for example the child found controlling parents he might develop stubbornness. Such behaviour ensures that the person will escape from any future control attempt imposed on him.
Now some people develop the goal of remaining where they are and this is where hesitation comes from. Here are 2 examples that will make everything clear:
Contrary to common beliefs those who hesitate often aren't the ones who really want to take a step in life but they are the ones who want to remain where they are because that serves their most important psychological goal (protecting their self esteem).
Are you among those people?
Do you procrastinate for months without beginning on your important tasks?
Do you always fear to take a new step?
Do you move 1 step forward then 2 steps backward?
If that's the case then you need to develop the one trait that will turn your life around completely which is courage.
Success can never happen without initial failure
If you don't want to fail then that's OK but put in mind that remaining where you are for years while everyone else is going forward is the worst failure that can ever happen to anyone.
Be brave
stop hesitation today
Change your own destiny
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