How to prevent yourself from falling for someone

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Attachment, helplessness and your self esteem

In my previous article How to be strong in life i said that being in need is the root of all weakness. The more needy you become the more vulnerable you will be.

Weather its a life goal or a relationship your unmet needs will make you weak, let you feel helpless and affect your self esteem in a bad way.

That's why as much as you should care about never giving up you should also make sure that you don't get so attached to anything or to anyone.

In early stages of relationships where people meet for the first few times the probability of attachment becomes so high. Even if you are going to end up together why let yourself suffer or become helpless until it happens?

Because 2knowmyself conveys the message of personal strength and power in this article i will tell you how to prevent yourself from falling in love with a person you just met.

How to prevent yourself from falling for someone

This article is part II of my article How to not get attached to someone so make sure you also check it out.

Do you know how an idea becomes stronger in the mind? This happens through repetition.
The more an idea is repeated over and over in your mind the more will it become a strong belief. (see Subconscious mind programming)

Now what people do when they meet a potential partner is that they develop the habit of compuslvive checking. They check the person's pictures, messages, facebook profile and their own inbox many times throughout the day.

With each check they do they make their emotions and feelings stronger. That's why you might meet a person one day then three days later wonder why you became so much attached to him.

Its because you were programming your mind over and over every few minuets with his pictures and words.

The Savior concept and attachment

Some people start to think of the potential partner they just met as their savior or the one who will help them forget all the bad experiences that happened to them in the past.

Have you ever heard yourself saying something like that: "i have been waiting so long for such a relationship". This phrase and many similar ones does nothing but glorify that person you just met and make him appear like a savior.

In my book How to get over anyone in few days i said that by doing so you will turn that person from a normal human being to a superior being who can directly control your fate through his responses.

I am not asking you to have negative expectations but i am just asking you to put your expectations under control until you find that your chance of attracting that person to you is high enough.

In most cases we only get slightly attached to people but we keep programing ourselves until we start to believe that we can't live without them.

If you are so attached to someone you just met then know that you are a prisoner of the lie you created.

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