Attraction and the subconscious mind

Many people lack self esteem because they believe that nobody likes them. One of the best ways that can help you feel that you are demanded is to become able to spot those who like you.

Because of social pressure and many other reasons a person might like you but never tells you that he feels that way towards you. In addition, sometimes a complete stranger might find you attractive but because he wont interact with you there wont be any chance for him to let you know that you appealed to him.

The good news i have for you is that in all cases people will still show that they like you without they notice. The subconscious mind of a person will send many signals that show interest if he got interested in someone even if the he was eagerly trying to show that he is not interested. By looking for those signs you will be able to find out who has a crush on you.

How to know who has a crush on you

There are lots of signs that can show whether a person has a crush on you or not. The more signs you find the more you can make sure that this person likes you, here are some of them:

1) You are the only one who knows this: One of the very effective signs for knowing whether someone likes you or not is looking for the phrase “You are the only one who knows this” or “no one knows this except my mom and you”. When someone tells you a secret then tells you that you are one of the few people who know it then it only means one thing, that this person is trying to tell you that you are really special to the extent that you are one of the few people who know about his deep secrets. The next time someone tells you “You are the only one who knows this” put a possibility in mind that he likes you and if you found few other signs then know that he likes you.
2) Showing off: People dislike showy ones and sometimes believe that they are arrogant but in fact showy people only show off in front of the ones they consider important. In other words, if someone has a crush on you he will try to flex his muscles by talking about his achievements or by showing any good thing he has.
3) Never become bored: If someone likes you he will never become bored and he will never try to leave unless he really has to. On the other hand if the person didn’t like you he might start becoming bored if you were sitting together for a long period of time. The person who likes you will always find an excuse to stay more while the person who doesn’t like you will always find an excuse to leave. One of the signs that always helped me to discover that a person is attracted to someone else is the desire to stay more.
4) Will call your name more often: If a person has a crush on you then he will use your name more often than other people who regard you as a friend. In my book How to know if someone likes you in 30 minutes i said that the one who likes you will have a lot of suppressed emotions that he can't get out and one of the things that helps that person get out some of these emotions is calling your name more often.
5)Becoming interested in your hobbies: The person who likes you will become interested in whatever you do and might ask to join. If for example you told him that you love tennis then he might ask to join you the next time.
6)Doing difficult and time consuming tasks for you: If a person likes you he won’t hesitate to do time consuming tasks for you even if he had limited time or even if the task was difficult for him. Sometimes asking someone directly for help can result in letting him agree without wanting to do it but if the person likes you he won’t even wait until you ask him but he will offer help as soon as he feels that you need it. (see also How to know if a guy likes you)
7)His friends will know who you are : If someone likes you he will definitely tell his friends about you and they will know all the details he knows about you before meeting you. On the first meeting with them you can very easily determine whether those people already know about you or whether they are just getting introduced to you. If they were told about you then most probably they will not ask more questions because they already know it all, they won’t argue with you because they have already argued about everything you did and one of them might even make a mistake that reveals that he/she had received some information about you earlier.

How to get accurate readings

Those were just 7 signs that show that someone has a crush on you but there are tens more. Read as much as you can about those signs (use the links in this post) and start looking for them.

If you found , lets say, 10 of those signs coming from one person in one or two meetings then make sure that this person has a crush on you.

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