I get so many messages from female readers who ask me whether their crush wants serious commitment or not.
In my article Why women like bad boys i explained how women get attracted the most to the unavailable type who isn't really into commitment.
The problem that happens each time is that the woman seeks the challenge of trying to force that unavailable person to commit only to end up being more attached to him.
The one fact you must know about guys is that many of them get into relationships to fill emotional gaps, to have fun, to prove something to themselves or to have sex. In other words, you need to be very careful ,if you were a woman, not to get attached to the wrong person who doesn't really have any intention to commit. (see also The psychology of players).
I decided to write this post to help you see the warning signs that shows that a man doesn't really want to commit.
If a guy is not that into you or if he doesn't want to commit then:
The biggest mistake women do is that they put a lot of effort to force that man to commit to them without realizing that the problem was with their wrong choice. This type of man will never commit simply because he is not that into you.
Breaking up should be an easy thing after you read my articles about breakups but the real problem is not with breaking up, its with making the wrong choice.
I know its a challenge to pick the available man since he seems less attractive but if you want serious commitment you must understand that the unavailable man would have been an available man if he really wanted to commit. (see also Body language attraction signals)
The real challenge you have in here is to learn how to depend on your mind instead of depending on emotions to make a choice. I am not asking you to go for a man that you don't really want but i am just asking you to choose a good man who is at least more available than that cold distant man you are chasing.
Do you want to make sure whether someone likes you or not?
The book How to know if someone likes you in 30 minutes was released by 2knowmyself. The book is based on attraction psychology, scientific research,body language,NLP and real case studies. It will help you spot those who like you on the first meeting if not in the first 5 minutes.
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