Why you should be bold

There are so many advantages that come with being bold. Studies have shown that women get more attracted to bold men because they feel safe around them. It was also found that bold people tend to feel more confident than the average person provided that all other factors are constant. (see also Why women like bad boys)

Bold people also are more likley to get what they want in life since they don't follow the crowds blindly, they stand up for themselves and they do their best to get their personal needs fulfilled.

Add to this the kind of respect bold people get from their friends and enemies and you will understand why so many people want to become bold in life.

How to be bold in life

So how can you become bold in life? here are few simple steps:

1) Always say what you want to say: How many calculations do you make before you say what you wanted to say? Do you fear getting judged? do you think people won't like you if you were honest? In fact the only thing that will happen if you kept hiding your feelings is that you will lose your self confidence.
2) Always stand up for what you want: How many times you sacrificed your needs just because you wanted to please others? A bold person will express his needs clearly and will do his best to get them fulfilled. As soon as you start giving up on what you want just to please others your self confidence will go down
3)Do not give excuses for your actions: If you did anything wrong don't give excuses to the people around. If for example you dropped your keys then there is no need to tell people how tired you are that day. People who give excuses are the ones who fear to be judged by others. Bold people act normally even when they do mistakes
4) Don't give weight to the opinion of others: I know so many people who gave up on brilliant ideas that would have succeeded just because some people put them down. Bold people keep moving with disregard to the opinion of others and that's why they usually get what they want in the end.
5) don't let people control you: People always try to manipulate others by judging and labeling them. A bold person never responds to these attempts and he just keeps doing what he always does with disregard to the opinion of others. When someone tries to manipulate you let him know that you believe that you are right and that you don't care about what others think (see also The psychology of control freaks)

Bonus tip for becoming bold

In the Solid Self confidence program i said that the more you depend on others to feel worthy the more likely you are going to lose your identity.

A bold person gets his self worth from within, he knows that he is pretty good and that not all people will judge him correctly. In other words, a bold person is not affected by external forces and he marches to the beat of his own drum.

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