Did you get a bad remark about your looks from someone who doesn't like you?
Before you can assume that he was right you need to know few facts about the way the brain works.
The more you will learn about psychology the more you will discover how irrational people can be especially when it comes to judging others. In my previous article How your eyes can deceive you i explained how our brains alter our perception so that we only see what we want to see.
Here is a very simple example that happened to us all: have you ever had a crush on someone then saw him somewhere only to discover that its a just a person who barley looks him? How many times you encountered people who seemed to look like that person you liked?
I bet it happens often and the reason it happens is that your brain was just trying to help you find that person you liked and so it distorted your perception to help you find him faster. Now the question is, how does that mechanism work when someone hates you?
People who aren't that confident or who dislike themselves usually see an uglier image when they look at the mirror than the image others see. In my previous article Why a mirror can't really tell you how you look like i said that you can make those same perception errors if you aren't happy with who you are.
Notice that all of those perception errors happen on the unconscious level and appear so real. In other words a hater won't know that he is actually constructing images that don't exist but he will strongly believe that you are ugly.
In my book The psychology of physical attraction i explained how so many people dislike their looks as a result of developing imagined ugliness disorder which is a disorder that stems from seeing an image of themselves that doesn't really exist in reality.
Watch out, You can't always trust your eyes because your mind interferes often.
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