If you have done anything useful in your life no matter how small it is then i am pretty sure you discovered that at least one person hated you since then. When was the last time you did something really good and very few people congratulated you?
And why do some people find it hard to compliment or congratulate others?
Do people hate the ones who become successful?
I have said earlier that hate is an emotion that your mind uses to keep you away from certain people. If someone bullies you everyday then certainly you will hate him because your mind will want to keep you safe.
But why do some people hate their successful friends?
Won't they benefit by sticking around them?
Any why would the mind work on keeping a person away from successful ones?
Jealousy is an emotion that is hard coded into human brains. While some people can control that powerful emotion so many fail to resist its effects and fall prey to it.
In the Solid Self confidence program i said that those who have a good level of self esteem use that jealousy to improve themselves but they never hate you. On the other hand those who believe that they can't do anything good in life find no other option but to hate you.
In other words, if a person believes he can succeed then his jealousy will push him forward but if he believed he can't do it then hating successful people would be the best option.
So why do people hate you when you succeed? here are some reasons:
Didn't you notice that only the ones who want to forget about their unfulfilled goals hate you when you succeed? The fact that some people don't want to remember their failures only shows that they are too afraid to start again or pursue them.
Yes every normal person can experience jealousy when he meets a successful person but only those who lack self esteem will hate the successful person and try to avoid him.
In other words, don't feel bad if you discovered that some people hate you after you became successful. Its just an indication that they are weak and not that there is anything wrong with you.
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