Ever been with someone who used to call you 5 times every single hour?
Ever been with a person who used to fight with you if you didn't call him for few hours?
Ever been with someone who used to feel jealous each time you talked to anyone from the opposite sex?
Ever been with someone who fought with you whenever you did any activity that he wasn't involved in?
If your answers were yes then most probably you were with an insecure person. Even in relationships between friends there are people who call often with no apparent reason just because they feel insecure.
For the first instance you might think that those people aren't thinking rationally but when you get to know what's going on in their minds you will understand them perfectly.
Those people are actually afraid of abandonment, they don't want to be left by friends or lovers and their biggest fear is getting replaced by someone else.
Because they are always concerned about these things they tend to find no other way to reassure themselves but to keep calling their friends or lovers very frequently.
If they were lucky enough to have a lover or a friend who calls them with the same frequency then they will feel safe else they might become very insecure and fight over tiny reasons.
Now the question is, why do some people fear abandonment to that extent and why do some people always feel secure even if their lovers never called them?
The answer lies in the pasts of those people. Here are the possible explanations:
The best way to stop feeling insecure or to help an insecure person feel secure is to let him understand the reason that makes him fear abandonment then to help him satisfy his unmet need for love in a good way.
If an insecure person felt truly loved even for some time then this could help him compensate for the unmet need he developed earlier and he might not feel insecure again.
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