Why are there selfish people out there?
Why do some people only care about themselves?
In my previous article What causes selfishness i said that selfish people suffer from fear of loss of control and that's why they keep all of their resources to themselves.
In this article i will go deeper into the psychology of a selfish person and tell you what past experiences results in making a person become selfish.
So what are the reasons that could make a child grow to be a selfish adult?
All kids are born thinking that they are the center of the world. This doesn't mean that they are selfish but at least they don't know yet how to think about others except themselves.
Some people fail to grow out of this stage and so remain selfish forever. Below are some reasons that will help you understand why there are selfish people:
Many people think that communication skills are as superficial as being a good listener or learning the difference between hearing and listening while in fact communicating properly with people requires a deep understanding of their psychology and personality dynamics. (see How to understand people)
You can't blame a selfish person for his selfishness because he was raised in such a way that made him selfish. Instead you can help him develop empathy for others and become more interested in people after you understand him.
There are many selfish people out there and unless you understand them well you might not be able to communicate with them properly nor even help them get over their selfishness.
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