Why don't people respect me?
Why don't people treat me the way i deserve?
Why do some people disrespect me even though i believe i am worthy of being respected?
In my previous article how to overcome rejection from anyone i said that you must reply back to those who reject you by proving them wrong either by saying it directly or indirectly by taking actions.
In that article i was talking about rejections that happen to you because of the ignorance of others and not because of some mistakes you did but in this article i will talk about some mistakes you do that might be preventing people from respecting you or valuing you the way you want.
In this article i will tell you why some people don't respect you.
How do you approach people? Do you approach them while feeling shaky? Do you hesitate a a lot? Does this hesitation appear in your body language?
People believe whatever they are told if the source delivering them the information was a trusted source. If you appeared confident people will believe that you are worth being respected while if you appeared hesitant they won't consider you a trusted source and they wont respect you.
Here is how you can make people respect you:
Most people approach others while being hesitant and shaky. They become discouraged by negative signs they see even if these negative sings were imagined and they become encouraged when they see positive signs. (see How to become self confident)
If you want people to respect you then you must approach them while having one phrase in your mind "Let me tell you who i am", only then you will get the respect you want.
Some people approach others in such a way that shows that they are waiting for the result of an evaluation. That's why people get turned off by them and that's why they hardly respect them.
What i am trying to say is that many of the rejections you got in your life might be the direct result of your own self doubts which were reflected in your actions and behaviour. Had you approached those people differently they would have respected you and admired you.
The next time you approach a person put one phrase in your mind in order to let him respect you "Let Me Tell You Who I Am"
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