Sometimes you may find that everyone around is opposing you, that people are rejecting you, rejecting your ideas, putting you down or even questioning your dreams.
What a hard moment. You may even start to question your own abilities and dreams. The dreams you once believed in and the dreams you once fought for. You may get depressed, you may stop trying or even start to believe that you've been wrong all that time and then give up.
I call this period the big test. Its the period when you start testing the strength of your beliefs. Its the period where you have to decide whether you really deserve to succeed or not and whether people's opinions are right.
It's the period where your decisions may either add another crack to your self confidence or awaken your challenging spirit. It's the period where you can decide to hold on to your dreams as much as you can or forget about them and give up.
Don’t think that you are the only person who faced that situation. Almost everyone faced such rejections before in his life but sadly some people were fooled.
They thought that the problem was with them and so they gave up on their dreams. Only a few continued to the end and those few discovered that it was the right decision. The following are examples of some of those people:
What’s the point of all of these stories? The only point is that those people believed in themselves and that's why they succeeded.
Anyone of them could have thought that they didn’t deserve success and then gave up midway. But if that had happened their names wouldn't have been in this article.
In the Solid Self confidence program i said that you could be the next John Creasy or even the next Lincoln; why give up right after being rejected once or twice?
You must rebuild your own beliefs about yourself, your work and your skills, so that when people reject you (when the time of the big test comes) you find yourself unaffected by them
Know that gold always lies buried under the ground with many people stepping on this ground and not caring to look for it. But when people find it by coincidence they may kill each other to get it or even start a war for it. Trust your abilities, be persistent; life only remembers the strong.
Did that help?
I don’t have confidence in my abilities.
Many people have told me before that I am no good
Maybe i was rejected because i wasn't that good
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