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In many of my previous articles i explained how people fall in love with the ones who meet certain conditions present in their love maps. I also said that this love map keeps evolving as the person goes through the different life experiences.
But do you know that some people have a very weird condition in their love map that must be met even if all others were already fulfilled? that condition is the "Love me for my wound or i won't love you"
Sounds strange huh?
Can someone reject someone else just because he is getting a type of love that doesn't appeal to him even if its coming from a person he considers good?
Don't worry, in the next few lines i am going to make everything clear.
Susan and Kate are both singles. Susan always had a problem finding herself attractive. she was always unsure whether she looked good or not. Kate had a different problem, while she was very attractive (and she knew it) she always questioned whether her worth goes beyond her physical appearance.
Both women were wounded but in different ways and because those wounds were so devastating for them they alerted their love maps in a such a way that they didn't just seek love but they demanded a type of love that helped them heal their wounds.
Susan didn't just want to be loved but she wanted to be loved by someone who finds her pretty. Kate on the other hand didn't want someone who loves her just because of her looks but she was seeking a man who loves her for whom she is. (see also The secret to attracting love)
If a man who wasn't interested in Susan earlier started becoming more interested in her after knowing more things about her she couldn't help but find him unattractive. Of course she was not aware of the reason which is that she wanted someone to love her from the first sight.
The opposite happens with Kate. If a man showed initial interest she usually finds him unattractive but if he came close as a friend then lately showed interest she becomes more attracted to him.
In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i said that some people don't just want to be loved but they want to be loved in a way that helps them feel good about their old wounds.
Based on these facts if you were interested in Kate you should then approach her in a certain way but if you got interested in Susan then you should change your strategy completely.
I always said that understanding a person is the key to making him fall in love with you and now that you know these facts i am sure it became more evident to you how important understanding a person is.
Love is like two pieces of a puzzle that fit together, If you want the two pieces to fit perfectly together then you first need to understand exactly how the first piece looks like before you insert a random one.
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