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A reader sent me a question saying that she keeps falling in and out of love and she was wondering whether this means that she has picked the wrong partner.
Before i can answer this question i must first give a brief explanation of love's psychology so that you understand why people fall in love.
As a result of the childhood experiences we passed through we all came up with a list of requirements that should be present in our potential partner.
This list is stored in the unconscious mind and most people aren't aware of most of the elements inside it. If it happened that someone matched most of the entries in this list we will fall in love with him.
So how can this explain the process of falling in and out of love with someone?
The first time you see a person who will meet your unconscious criteria you will fall in love with him. Now what if that person started acting in a way that violated these criteria later on? of course you will fall out of love as a result.
For example, if one of the very important entries in a woman's subconscious criteria was loyalty then she will fall in love with a loyal man (provided that all other conditions are met) now if that man started to cheat there is a big possibility that this woman will fall out of love.
So we can conclude that you will keep falling in and out of love with someone when that person keeps matching and then violating your criteria every now and then.
A showy guy will most likely fall in love with a beautiful and attractive woman because that will allow him to show off, now when that woman stops taking care of her appearance he will certainly fall out of love provided that all other factors are constant.
In my book The Ultimate guide to a healthy relationship I said that in order to prevent the problem of falling in and out of love often you must be realistic about what you are expecting from your partner.
Most people think that they have found someone who is perfect then later on start complaining when they find that the person has some traits that they don't like.
Its impossible to find someone who matches your criteria 100% and that's why you must always compromise whenever possible. Of course if the person was found to be a horrible match then its your right to fall out of love but if he had minor deviations from your exceptions then know that this is how life goes.
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