I just came back from a wonderful vacation in Cyprus. During the vacation me and my friends came across a relatively high cliff located beside the beach.
We thought about jumping off the cliff into the sea but we were stopped by a warning sign we found nearby. The problem wasn't with the height of the cliff but rather with the rocks resting below the cliff that were clearly visible from above.
When you stand on the edge of the cliff all what you can see is the transparent water with massive rocks beneath it.
Both the sight of the rocks and the warning sign forced us to give up on jumping and to wait until the closed water sports section reopens so that we ask about a safe spot to jump from.
one hour later someone who already jumped before told the people on the cliff that they can jump safely in this area and that the rocks they see below the sea lie too deep beneath it. Suddenly people started gathering on the cliff and jumping one by one. By the time i arrived back to the cliff i found that 4 people had already jumped.
My turn came after few minutes and i found myself standing on the edge of the cliff thinking about jumping. I felt really afraid as many thoughts came to my mind. What if i hit a rock below the sea? What if i hit a rock on my way to the bottom? what if something wrong happened? Why is this warning sign here??
After 10 seconds of thinking i made my mind and decided to jump.
For the first millisecond i felt really scared but after that i felt that i made a great achievement that i have never done before. I conquered my fear and discovered many facts about dealing with fear in those few seconds! (see How to become fearless in life)
Just like i said in the Solid Self confidence program as soon as you proof something to your subconscious mind it gives you a quick confidence boost. I always believed i am a brave person but my in order for my subconscious mind to believe me it had to see a real proof.
After that jump my subconscious mind made sure even more that i am a brave person and as a result that belief became stronger. People asked me earlier how to change their beliefs and i replied saying that it can't be done by affirmations or day dreaming but it can only be done by serious actions.
So what can this story teach us about conquering fear?
Finally i want you to be careful. Had we knew that anyone got injured in the past by jumping from that cliff we would have never done it. Courage is not about getting yourself injured or even killed but its all about differentiating between real danger and perceived danger that is unreal.
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