All people without exception want to improve their self esteem and feel more confident but the reason most of them fail to do so is that they don't quite understand how their minds work.
As humans we are social beings who can't survive on our own and because of that our self esteem can be a function of our status or of how we see ourselves in comparison to others.
In this article i will tell you how can self esteem be improved by learning how to increase your status.
Why would someone buy a very expensive car that is full of options that he will never need?
You might have guessed the answer, to increase his status.
In the Solid Self confidence program i said that Feelings of inferiority are triggered whenever you believe that a person has more status than you. When you think that someone is richer, smarter, stronger or more popular you might feel inferior.
Why do you think people feel bad when they get rejected?
Because the rejection represents nothing more than a loss of status!!
When people feel that their status has decreased they feel less confident and lose self esteem.
So in short,In order to increase your self esteem you must find a way to increase your status.
Lots of people mistakenly believe that building self esteem is all about lying in the bed and repeating affirmations but in fact in order to increase your self confidence you must make different changes to your life such as building new skills and improving your status.
You can increase your status by:
1) Learn to do things that most people can't do. You don't have to be a superman just pick a simple task that most people avoid (maybe because its unpleasant) then excel at it
2) Learn a new skill. By doing so you will gain status because you will compare yourself to your old self and so experience an increase in self esteem.
3) Have big plans. The beauty about the human mind is that just as making big achievements can make you feel special having big plans can make you feel special too.
4) Go beyond your comfort zone. At any point there would be tons of things that you could do to get an instant status increase but most probably you will be held back by your desire to stay in your comfort zone. Breakthrough your comfort zone and your self esteem will be increased.
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